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Deep penetration, a great view of your partner’s ass, and that feeling of being in total control are just some of the reasons men love hitting it doggystyle. Yes, it’s all power and pleasure for one party, but there is a reason the person knelt over with an arched back wants to switch things up after a few strokes: it ain’t the most comfortable position. If you want to make sure your partner can take the D any way you serve it up from the back, read on.
1On The Edge
Use the edge of the bed to position your partner’s bottom to hang slightly over the bed while you stand behind. Place your feet shoulder’s width apart to get a good footing. Make sure your knees are bent, and enter your partner with ease. Using the edge of the bed allows you to totally control your footing (you’re no longer on your knees) and prevents your partner from losing balance.
2Massage & Stroke
Maintaining an arched back can be a challenge for the person in the receiving position. To ease the discomfort, use your thumbs to massage your partner’s lower back by holding on to their hips and sliding your hands downward. You can even use the tips of your fingers to massage along either side of the spine to deepen the arch and rub out some back knots simultaneously. Coordinate your massage strokes with your penetrative strokes.
3Delay the Beat Up
Doggy style provides deep penetration that can sometimes feel uncomfortable for the receiving partner when you go too deep too fast. There are always exceptions, but the best practice is to use shallow, slow strokes to allow time for your partner’s body to accommodate the position. You can go deeper and increase your speed after natural lubrication and arousal occur. Continue to pay attention to how her body is responding and adjust your stroke as you feed off her energy. Ask if she wants you to go deeper before moving forward to help her prepare for the new sensations that will come along with deeper penetration.
4Use Props
Using pillows as assistants in doggystyle improve comfort for your partner and create an angle for penetration that can provide access to different pleasure zones within the vagina. Stack two or more pillows underneath your partner’s hips and have her bring her chest to the surface of the bed. Using the pillows can also help alleviate pressure on your partner’s knees and lower back pain. The firmer the pillows are, the better support they will provide for your partner.
5Strap Up
A fun way to support your partner’s weight is by using a doggystyle strap. This device is an easy-to-use adjustable harness that is placed on the lower abdomen of your partner while you hold its loops. The support of the harness can assist with targeting the g-spot and can be used in standing doggystyle positions as well as kneeling. Purchasing one is easy, and at under $10 this sex accessory will pay for itself after just one sex session.
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