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You may be thinking about masturbating in front of your girl, and if you haven’t taken the leap, now is a good time to try… if of course, she’s down with it. There are some major benefits to showing your lady, or lady of the night, how you get down:
Kill the “Bad Guy” Routine
Masturbating while in a relationship is often done in secret to avoid arguments between partners due to bruised egos. You can self-please and still be happy in your relationship. Talk it out. Break away from the confines of the bathroom and masturbate in front of your girl to affirm your right to pleasure yourself. Showing her that you love indulging in self-pleasure—and that she can be your muse—may also encourage her to do the same.
Show Her How You Handle Biz
Your girl is not a mind reader and definitely can’t know how you enjoy being stroked unless you show her. Having the courage to masturbate in front of bae serves as an educational moment to teach her about the hotspots on your penis. You can show her how to use her hands on your shaft and how much pressure to apply. Make it fun by using these moments to role play as her college professor while she behaves as a good student.
Provide Inspiration for Getting It In
Instead of using pornography or pictures of other women as your motivation while masturbating, use your girl as a real-life source of stimulation. Let her know how much she turns you on. Bringing her into your masturbation practice can help you connect more intimately and remain rooted in the reality of the moment instead of fantasies.
Spice It Up
Get kinky. If you’re looking for a way to excite your self-pleasure practice, use your girl as a guide. Allow her to direct your hands and the speed of your stroke. Give her control over your orgasm and see how this play enhances your experience. Allowing her to take the reins enables you to focus on what you’re feeling instead of focusing on the outcome.
