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Kissing and oral sex shouldn’t be the only ways you can get your partner wet. Master lovers—like Amber Rose—understand the importance of touch, and foot massages are a great way to keep bae in your DMs. Luckily, you don’t need to be a professional (or have a vagina) to deliver a killer foot rub that ensures things are juicy. All you need are a few simple essentials:

1 Soft Hands Matter

Hands that are about as soft as sand paper don’t feel good on anyone’s skin. Exfoliate and moisturize your palms and fingertips before you get things started. You can create a basic hand scrub at home by mixing four tablespoons of salt with a teaspoon of oil to make a paste. Rub the blend into your hands for about two minutes. Rinse in warm water, pat dry, and moisturize immediately afterwards.

2 Keep It Moist

Pick a natural oil or butter—cocoa, coconut, almond, or olive— and apply it to every part of your partner’s foot (include everything below the ankle). Score extra points by adding essential oils like lavender, peppermint, or clove. The scented additions increase blood flow to the feet and help set the mood. Don’t have any of these things at your disposal? Regular lotion will get the job done.

3 Bring the Body Heat

Before you place the moisturizer on your partner’s feet, warm it up in your hands by rubbing vigorously. You can also warm oil inside the bottle by sitting it in a bowl of hot water. Massage oil candles are also an easy and sexy way to warm oil while simultaneously providing aroma therapy and ambient lighting.

4 Ask Where it Hurts

Catering to your partner’s needs is the purpose of providing the massage. So before you begin rubbing, ask if there are areas of the feet that need special attention. When you make the ask, look into their eyes with seductive intention and actually pay attention to their response. Once you have your instructions, it’s time to begin your seductive foreplay.

5 Keep Things Light…At First

When massaging, you always want to begin with light pressure, kneading the skin with your thumbs and finger tips. As you rub, hold a loving intention in your mind and allow that energy to flow from you into your partner. Make eye contact as you massage and increase pressure at your partner’s request. You can move from the foot to the ankles, stroking upward to facilitate the flow of the blood back to the heart. As you massage, your partner’s body will warm up in anticipation for more. You can even incorporate some dirty talk while you caress.

6 Put It In Your Mouth

A few appropriately placed kisses on your partner’s feet can transform the massage session into a make out session. If you’re into this kind of foot play, strategy is key. Start with light sucking of toes and even tickling licks on the top side of the foot. If your partner responds positively, play around with different licks, nibbles, and sucks to figure out what feels best. Turn up the sexy with chocolate or whipped cream—but don’t forget to have a warm, wet rag near to wipe their feet clean after you’re done feasting.